to love is to suffer
to avoid suffering one must not love.
but the one suffers from not loving
therefor, to love is to suffer;
not to love is to suffer; to suffer is to suffer.
to be happy is to love.
to be happy, then, is to suffer,
but suffering makes one unhappy.
therefor, to be unhappy, one must love or
love to suffer or suffer from too much happiness.
i hope you are getting this down...