suffer...

givenchy

to love is to suffer

to avoid suffering one must not love.

but the one suffers from not loving

therefor, to love is to suffer;

not to love is to suffer; to suffer is to suffer.

to be happy is to love.

to be happy, then, is to suffer,

but suffering makes one unhappy.

therefor, to be unhappy, one must love or

love to suffer or suffer from too much happiness.

i hope you are getting this down...

'woody allen'

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